Your lover after some time, realized it's not you they want? have you experienced this?

Thats why when you start dating someone you need to be aware of their past relationships... Sadly, women and men who have a highly promiscuous background have a hard time making secure attachments, and have all the previous relation baggage following them around. My theory, is find a man or woman who is 100% virgin -- they are so dedicated and willing to make it work. Still, even then, things can go wrong, just pray to God that he would stay in your all's lives, and I know in the end, you can say you tried!