How to fix mother in law problems?

Does your hubby know that it's driving you crazy? First thing you might want to do it let him know that if he doesn't, then maybe he can help. If he already knows and isn't helping, then you need to make him! It's his mom, not yours, so he needs to be responsible for the kind of relationship he's having with her and how it's affecting you. First thing I see wrong is that you need to make him get his own mail, make him control his own finance, and make him tell his mom to stop criticizing him.